sympathy baskets
Tuesday, March 15th, 2011sympathy Baskets
Is this a good sympathy gift for my friend? Her mother just died?
My friend's mother just died...we have been working together a few years and she is basically like a mother to me. Me and my girlfriend are friends with her family but we never knew her mother. I was going to get them a Vermont Teddy Bear with a card saying "We are sorry for the loss of your loved one, keep this in her memory" Does that seem a bit over the top or no? For some reason it seems like a strange sympathy gift to me...but I didn't want to go with a generic fruit basket or flower arrangement...I wanted it to be something they could keep and remember. For me it just almost seems droll to give someone a gift that is like 'here is something to remind you that someone died'
Am I thinking too deeply about this? Any thoughts?
What matters is the note you write, on a card or letter, and the comfort you offer this person. I think you could even write "You have been like a mother to me" in your note and it would mean a lot. There should be no such thing as a sympathy gift-I agree it is just a reminder.
People gave my husband teddy bears when he had cancer and we were dumbfounded, although we appreciated the thought. Teddy bears for a 40 year old man? Reminders of his illness? No thanks!
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Large Sweet Sensations Gourmet Food & Snacks List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $64.60  |
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The perfect gift for any gift giving occasion! Impress friends, family or clients with this beautiful basket framed with flowing greenery and a lovely handmade bow. Offered in 3 very generous sizes (Large pictured), the Large basket features a delectable assortment of gourmet goodies - enough for all to share! Enjoy Angelina's Sweet Butter Cookies, Walkers Chocolate English Toffee, Beth's Chocolate Chip Cookies, Mrs... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Small Classic Gourmet Food Basket List Price: $29.99 Sale Price: $27.68 |
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A delightfully classic gourmet gift of goodies perfectly appropriate for any gift giving occasion that is especially easy on your gift giving budget. Your beautiful basket is themed in classic black and gold making it just the ticket for friends, family or office events... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets -The Finer Things Gourmet Food Gift Chest List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $49.99 |
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Gourmet snackers rejoice! We've designed a classy gift filled with the crunchy and tasty treats that they just can't get enough of. When the premium array of goodies are gone, this handsome suede leather gift chest with leather trim makes useful storage space that perfectly complements any home, den or office decor... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Large Lavender Renewal Spa, Bath and Body Set List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $64.60 |
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Pamper her with a personal course in the three R's: Renew... Recharge... Rejuvenate. Our superbly equipped Lavender Scented Spa Basket soothes the body and soul, starting with a four-piece Skin Reviving Set -- including a Sisal Hand Mitt, Sisal Bath Sponge, Flower Shaped Nylon Mesh Pouf and a Hand Held Wooden Massager... |
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Chocolate Treasures Gourmet Food Gift Basket List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $69.99 |
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One of our best selling gift baskets, requested time and again! This is the perfect gift on any occasion for valued clients, friends and family featuring an irresistible chocolate assortment: Chocolate Fudge Drenched Popcorn, a Double Chocolate Brownie, Torani Chocolate Milano Biscotti, Cafe Comforts Cocoa, Jamocha Coffee, Perugina Italian White Chocolate and Cappuccino Bars, Light and Crispy Chocolate Wafer Cookies, Godiva Dark Chocolate Almonds, Godiva Gems Assorted Chocolates, Almond Roca Chocolate Dipped Candy, Guiylan Belgian Chocolate Seahorses, Double Chocolate Meltaways, Chocolate Classique Truffles, Belgian Chocolate Truffles, Gold Individual Truffles, and 7 oz... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Small With Heartfelt Sympathy List Price: $29.99 Sale Price: $27.68 |
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Send your heartfelt sympathy to friends and loved ones with this beautiful basket themed in classic black and gold. It's such a thoughtful way to express your condolences by providing snacks and goodies for sharing... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Medium With Heartfelt Sympathy List Price: $49.99 Sale Price: $39.99 |
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Send your heartfelt sympathy to friends and loved ones with this beautiful basket themed in classic black and gold. Thoughtfully express your condolences by providing snacks and goodies for sharing. We start filling your gift with Black Peppercorn Crackers, Sesame Crackers, Lady Walton Ameretto Cookie, Lady Walton Dark Chocolate Cookie, Camembert Cheese Spread, Cafe Caramel Mocha Mix, Angelina's Sweet Butter Cookies, Gourmet Caramel Corn, Chocolate Toffee, Honey Cashew Nuts and Malto Bello Malted Almond Toffee Candy, then tie it with beautiful ribbon and include a personalized gift message from you to convey your heartfelt sympathy... |
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Art of Appreciation The Classic Gourmet Food Gift Basket - Medium List Price: $54.98 Sale Price: $39.99 |
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"Present an elegant gift that will please all--for any occasion--by sending the Classic Gourmet Food and Snacks Gift Basket from Art of Appreciation. A perfect corporate gift, office gift, or gift for friends and family--the Classic Gift Basket is themed in festive and tasteful black and gold--and is packed with savories and sweets for all to share... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Victorian Lace Tea, Spa & Treats Clock Gift Chest List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $42.50 |
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A special gift perfect for any occasion designed to celebrate elegant Victorian style, relaxation and good taste. We start with a unique antique style wooden gift chest detailed in hand painted English Roses and inlaid with a real working clock, sure to become a lovely addition to her home's decor... |
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Art of Appreciation Grand Edition Gourmet Food and Snacks Gift Basket - Medium List Price: $49.99 Sale Price: $39.99 |
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A delightfully classic gourmet gift of goodies for everyone to share! Your beautiful basket is themed in classic black and gold and is just the ticket for friends, family or office gift giving. Enjoy Foccacia Crisp Italian Seasoned Crackers, Wine Cheese Spread, savory Salami, Stone Ground Mustard, Double Chocolate Raspberry Cake, Anglina's Sweet Butter Cookies, Three Pepper Water Crackers, Chocolate Silk Crunch Cookie, and Godiva Gems Assorted Chocolates... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Large Sweet Sensations Gourmet Food & Snacks List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $64.60 |
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The perfect gift for any gift giving occasion! Impress friends, family or clients with this beautiful basket framed with flowing greenery and a lovely handmade bow. Offered in 3 very generous sizes (Large pictured), the Large basket features a delectable assortment of gourmet goodies - enough for all to share! Enjoy Angelina's Sweet Butter Cookies, Walkers Chocolate English Toffee, Beth's Chocolate Chip Cookies, Mrs... |
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Green Tea Zen Calming Spa Bath and Body Set Gift Basket Sale Price: $49.99 |
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Learn what tranquility is all about and be at peace with our calming Zen inspired Bamboo Spa Set beautifully presented in a spa caddy. Your gift features lightly scented herbal Bath Gel, Body Lotion, exfoliating Body Scrub, moisturizing Body Butter, soothing Bath Salts, an exfoliating Sisal Body Scrubber and 100% Cotton Spa Towel and to make a complete personal spa experience in the privacy of her own home, Green Tea to sip, sooth and unwind with after a long day... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Medium Lavender Renewal Spa, Bath and Body Set List Price: $49.99 Sale Price: $29.99 |
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Pamper her with a personal course in the three R's: Renew... Recharge... Rejuvenate! Our superbly equipped Lavender Scented Spa Basket soothes the body and soul by featuring a three-piece Skin Reviving Set that includes a Sisal Hand Mitt, Sisal Bath Sponge, and a Flower Shaped Nylon Mesh Pouf... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Large Lavender Renewal Spa, Bath and Body Set List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $64.60 |
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Pamper her with a personal course in the three R's: Renew... Recharge... Rejuvenate. Our superbly equipped Lavender Scented Spa Basket soothes the body and soul, starting with a four-piece Skin Reviving Set -- including a Sisal Hand Mitt, Sisal Bath Sponge, Flower Shaped Nylon Mesh Pouf and a Hand Held Wooden Massager... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Small With Heartfelt Sympathy List Price: $29.99 Sale Price: $27.68 |
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Send your heartfelt sympathy to friends and loved ones with this beautiful basket themed in classic black and gold. It's such a thoughtful way to express your condolences by providing snacks and goodies for sharing... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Medium With Heartfelt Sympathy List Price: $49.99 Sale Price: $39.99 |
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Send your heartfelt sympathy to friends and loved ones with this beautiful basket themed in classic black and gold. Thoughtfully express your condolences by providing snacks and goodies for sharing. We start filling your gift with Black Peppercorn Crackers, Sesame Crackers, Lady Walton Ameretto Cookie, Lady Walton Dark Chocolate Cookie, Camembert Cheese Spread, Cafe Caramel Mocha Mix, Angelina's Sweet Butter Cookies, Gourmet Caramel Corn, Chocolate Toffee, Honey Cashew Nuts and Malto Bello Malted Almond Toffee Candy, then tie it with beautiful ribbon and include a personalized gift message from you to convey your heartfelt sympathy... |
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Art of Appreciation The Classic Gourmet Food Gift Basket - Medium List Price: $54.98 Sale Price: $39.99 |
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"Present an elegant gift that will please all--for any occasion--by sending the Classic Gourmet Food and Snacks Gift Basket from Art of Appreciation. A perfect corporate gift, office gift, or gift for friends and family--the Classic Gift Basket is themed in festive and tasteful black and gold--and is packed with savories and sweets for all to share... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Victorian Lace Tea, Spa & Treats Clock Gift Chest List Price: $69.99 Sale Price: $42.50 |
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A special gift perfect for any occasion designed to celebrate elegant Victorian style, relaxation and good taste. We start with a unique antique style wooden gift chest detailed in hand painted English Roses and inlaid with a real working clock, sure to become a lovely addition to her home's decor... |
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Sympathy Gift Basket - Loss of Sister Sale Price: $41.95 |
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This memorial basket is the perfect gift for the loss of a sister. It features the Sister Memories Music Box, the delicate glass Angel Messenger, and the helpful book "Healing the Adult Sibling's Grieving Heart... |
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Mother Memories Sympathy Gift Basket Sale Price: $41.95 |
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This set includes the "Mother Memories" music box, the "Mom" glass heart and Dr. Alan Wolfelt's helpful book "Healing Your Grieving Heart". A caring and helpful bereavement gift for someone who has lost a beloved mother. |
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Footprints Trio Sympathy Gift Basket Sale Price: $26.95 |
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Send this contemporary sympathy gift basket to a man, woman or teen. Includes a polymer travel mug, a grief journal and an inspirational magnet. The Footprints Travel Mug holds 12 fl oz and features an insert with a beach and the inspirational Footprints prayer... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Small With Heartfelt Sympathy List Price: $29.99 Sale Price: $27.68 |
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Send your heartfelt sympathy to friends and loved ones with this beautiful basket themed in classic black and gold. It's such a thoughtful way to express your condolences by providing snacks and goodies for sharing... |
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Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Medium With Heartfelt Sympathy List Price: $49.99 Sale Price: $39.99 |
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Send your heartfelt sympathy to friends and loved ones with this beautiful basket themed in classic black and gold. Thoughtfully express your condolences by providing snacks and goodies for sharing. We start filling your gift with Black Peppercorn Crackers, Sesame Crackers, Lady Walton Ameretto Cookie, Lady Walton Dark Chocolate Cookie, Camembert Cheese Spread, Cafe Caramel Mocha Mix, Angelina's Sweet Butter Cookies, Gourmet Caramel Corn, Chocolate Toffee, Honey Cashew Nuts and Malto Bello Malted Almond Toffee Candy, then tie it with beautiful ribbon and include a personalized gift message from you to convey your heartfelt sympathy... |
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Sympathy Gifts during Times of Bereavement and Trouble
It's not only on happy occasions where you can give someone a gift. Sympathy gifts are given during sad or difficult times, such as when a loved one has met with an accident, when a friend has been fired from his or her job, or when someone has lost someone close. Sometimes words can't truly express what you really try to say. In times like these, a simple gift box to say you care, during their troubled times can mean a lot to them.
We are experiencing a global recession and some of your friends may have recently lost their jobs. You can show them that you are there for them with a simple sympathy gift. Taking some time out of your busy schedule and giving them something can greatly impact their morale.
For someone who has recently been laid off, giving something that will help meet their needs can be a blessing. Free groceries or even gasoline are good choices for someone struggling financially. But if someone is not really financially affected by the loss of job, a fun gift can do. A night out can cheer the person up.
An example of a good sympathy gift is a gourmet basket. It might say something like "get well soon,? or ?we sympathize for your lost more than words can say,? or the like. Sympathy baskets can be composed of various treats and food items. You could include chocolates, popcorn, cheese sticks, caramel corn, lemon drops, cookies, assorted fruits, and a lot more. gift baskets of coffee and tea are also usually enjoyed and cherished by the receiver.
Each sympathy gift can be unique, but finding the right one can sometimes be tedious. The choices are endless, with many selections to choose from. Custom-designed sympathy gifts can make a person feel more rested and comfortable. It might lift their spirits in troubled times.
Families of the recently deceased sometimes request that people donate to the family?s chosen charity, instead of giving them bereavement or sympathy gifts. For them, the money given to a charitable institution can be put into better use than flowers which will be placed in the garbage weeks after the funeral. Plus a family can be overwhelmed with the volume of flowers sent to them during a bereavement period. But this is not always the case and it depends on the circumstances.
Sympathy gifts can be given to anyone. It can be a relative, a friend, a colleague, or even just an acquaintance. And it can definitely bring a smile back to their face. It gives them the feeling that they?re not alone in their time of sadness or hardship, and is an excellent way of showing support without the struggle of trying to find the right words.
About the Author
Anna is a webmaster, photographer, a poet, and a writer on many subjects. She has lived and traveled in four continents and held many professions. For more information and advice which you can use during times of bereavement or hardship, visit Anna's websites, In Loving Memory Poems and her store, at Your Bereavement .